Sunday, July 22, 2012

Tourtists! To the Edge of the Sahara and Many Run-On Sentences


The Kasbah at Skoura
This is a lucky day of summer, just hot enough to not complain about the heat or humidity, bright blue sky, summer flowers and grasses popping with color. And we are ready to go to a Long Island beach and reckon with ourselves by way of saltwater and sun.

Same weather, our Spring, Southern Morocco and a trip on a gorgeous day in March from Skoura, Morocco to the edge of the Sahara desert into the Erg Chebbi dunes. These were the same dunes where, after an 8 hour car ride through vast and magnificent landscapes, we popped out of the car and onto a camel and rode off into the sunset under an enormous night sky full of stars and nothingness for almost 1,800,000 square miles. Also known as miles and miles and miles and miles... 




past the deep steep Dades Gorge 

past small roadside villages


past nomad tents




to the  many choices of someone or someplace who was going to get us  up on camels and take us into the dunes. It was hard until it was easy because of course, we had no reservations and these signs pointed to something in the vast nothingness we could not see. And we drove on a road not made for our little rental, four wheel drives waving us to go back! Go back! 

But we persevered because all of these signs had to point to something and in the end, they did. When asked by the nice hotel man in the newly built Kasbah hotel if we would like to sleep here, NEAR the dunes or take a camel and sleep in a tent overnight IN the dunes, we looked at each other with a, "duh" and "IN THE DUNES" even with our backs and backsides achy from the long but beautiful car ride, the last bit of stress over the rocky dirt path to nothing which turned into something and then there were...

Two camels left, the third camel ridden in each of our lifetimes: the first (named Michael Jackson) in the Thar desert in India, the second (name forgotten) in the Agafay Desert in Morocco just a few years earlier and now this one, named Habibi, led by a man dressed in a torn cobalt blue robe, purported to be Toureg (because tourists like to think their experiences are authentic) who helped us up, who spoke little English, French or Japanese, just enough to say "hello!" and "everything ok?". We were fine. We were laughing and bobbing and on our camels. We were finally free for some reason, in the middle of nothing and quiet and sands upon sands and finally the Sahara Desert, desert of dreams and Lawrence of Arabia and fierce and frightening battles and romance and magic and night and stars and darkness except for the flickering firelight of our camp just up ahead and a tagine we were hungry for and other tourists and a shared love of something that felt like adventure, good enough for me in that moment.






Into the Erg Chebbi, where we would sleep for one night, wake up and see the sunrise and march these camels back to the road where, for them it's a way of life and for us, well, we are just tourists.


other tourists

Friday, June 8, 2012

What we need to Do

Today is starting over, starting different, starting new.

Vanessa's last day was yesterday. It was, in the grandest sense, one of the most rewarding relationships I've ever had. We were mentors and friends to one another and she was loyal, upbeat, did her very best and made everything go. She was a problem solver, a grand object-maker, a hard worker. I will miss her deeply but she packs her pod and sets off for a new adventure in New Orleans and ultimately I have never been happier for someone. I think these are all signs of love and bonding. 
I don't have kids but maybe this is what it feels like.

I woke up ready for What we Need to Do. The list feels light, easy to pack, green like leaves, wet like rain, climbing like vines. 

There are many places to go from here. 
There are many things we have learned now to share:
http://nyyouthatrisk.org/
http://www.nyfoundling.org/
http://www.bigsnyc.org/index.php


*all photos from radical notion



Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Well Wed in Pink and Peach


The photo of our cherry blossoms comb 
turned out so nice, by Beltrami Studios
from  Well Wed Hamptons and Well Wed New York magazines.

 And the Bonbon Oiseau Rose Blush head wrap too...from Vermont Vows.


Bon Science:
I am not a girly girl on the outside, although my top 3 favorite gut responses that make me go "oooo, I'm a girl" are in response to:
1. any of the colors pink
2. eyelet and lace
3. a good ruffle.


But pink tops my girly list. Is it its soft and feminine wiles, so fresh and sweet in it's primal specialness/girly allure? Or is it retinal instead, a color so moving and soothing that mostly sensitive and feeling eyes can see it best for what it is--tender innocence and belle époque sex.


Whatever it is, I am so happy to finally see the final results from our little contribution to a very pink editorial in the Spring/Summer 2012 of Well Wed New York and Well Wed Hamptons magazines. We're also in a very elegant peachy spread in Vermont Vows!


The rest of the pink spread is pretty sweet too...

 And more of the peach spread from Vermont Vows...



Wedding season is officially here...

Friday, May 18, 2012

Tomorrow, May 19th, aka Saturday aka tomorrow






So much happening a la bonbon tomorrow:
Our fourth Fab Sale: Take a sneak peek: Fab.com and then hit your private invitation to join up (if you're not already) so you can see it!



We have a pretty new Facebook Page with all the bells and whistles and there's one day left to our Like our Facebook Page Contest sooo Like our Facebook Page by 11 am tomorrow (right until the when the Fab sale starts!)to get entered to win our Violet Chains...If you share it on your page, you'll get entered twice because that's how we roll.



And Saturdays Live at the Brooklyn Flea in Fort Greene while all the rest happens and with me, a bevvy of new beads and money clips and etceteras for you and yours. I'd love to see you there...oxo

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

I want to tell you more















A lot has been happening...and I haven't been around here much. We are busy with life things, trying to replace disappointments with hope of the most part and so that's a good thing. I want to tell you about the Moroccan desert and the Palmeraie, but we've been busy.

Bonbon's been filling Spring orders and just getting over Mother's Day, getting ready for Father's Day. We've been every Saturday at the Brooklyn Flea and are having our 4th(!) sale on Fab this Friday with many new things. Sign up if you haven't already so you can see...

In the meantime, here are a few from our new collection and a shoot we somehow talked Vanessa into modeling for, the Bonbon Girl for Summer...Jim took the model shots and I took the stills...It's from a collection called Omo, inspired by a book I have about the Surma and Mursi tribes in Southern Ethiopia, just on the border of kenya and Sudan, the colors of the Omo valley and the beads and elaborate natural decorations worn by the  men and women and children. This is a quieter interpretation and mixed with a visit to the Lakota reservation a few years ago...